I had big dreams once. I guess we all do. My idea of what I wanted to be when I grew up changed a little over time, but mostly it stayed the same. When I was three, I wanted to be a paramedic. This was largely connected to the fact that my favorite TV show, aside from Smurfs, was Emergency. In first grade, I said I wanted to be a Truck Driver, probably because that’s what my big brother wanted to be when he grew up. Mostly throughout childhood, I wanted to sing country music, or just sing really. If we’re being completely honest, that idea has always remained in the back of my mind. When I graduated high school, I was going to be a surgeon or a pediatrician, and live in Montana on a horse ranch. After a couple of semesters of college, I realized that dream didn’t sound nearly as appealing. I was fascinated with medicine, but hated chemistry, and Montana was, well IS, much too cold for my taste. My college career from that point on was one of uncertainty. I just really didn’t know what I wanted to do. In all that time, one thing never crossed my mind: Stay-at-home Mom. I wanted to get married, and I didn’t rule out the possibility of kids, but that’s as far as it went. I thought women who wanted to stay home had no ambition. Over the last few years, God has changed my heart and my view on this. At this point, I still have some dreams for my future, but I know they need to be molded some more. My dream for this moment in time is to stay at home with my precious daughter. I realize now how important that is. Last week, after 11 weeks at home, I went back to work. I’m only working on a part-time basis. It’s all I had the heart for, and I couldn’t, nor did I want to afford daycare. I felt in my heart of hearts, that God did not give me a child for someone else to raise. He entrusted her to me. So, until I can afford to stay home with her all the time, I am working three days a week. My mother is driving down each week to stay with Dinah while I work, and going home again on weekends.
And, I still have big dreams.
What are yours?
And, I still have big dreams.
What are yours?
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